Mike

🚨 I DON’T WANT TO DATE YOU FOR 5 YEARS JUST TO FIGURE OUT IF YOU’RE MY WIFE. ❤️

I’m at the point in my life where I’m not looking for somebody to “talk to.” I’m looking for somebody to build a whole life with.

I want ONE woman I can wake up and choose every single day.

The type of love where I’m bringing lunch to your job just because I miss you. 💐

Where you mention something you like one time and two weeks later it’s sitting on the kitchen counter waiting for you. 😂❤️

Bad day? Come here. I got you.

Car needs something? Hand me the keys.

You tired of cooking? Sit down, baby. I’ll handle dinner.

You need a weekend away? Pack your bag. ✈️

And no, I don’t only want the pretty parts.

Give me the bonnet, the attitude, the sleepy voice, the stressful days, the “I don’t feel like talking” days… all of it.

I want to know what it feels like to look across our home one day and think…

“Yeah… choosing her was the best decision I ever made.” ❤️

Maybe I’m too much of a lover boy for this generation, but I still believe my person exists.

So I gotta ask…

👀 Are women still looking for THIS kind of man… or did I show up in the wrong generation?

Haha how cool are these. Found them in the shoe store. I loved scooby doo

I’m starting to think my future woman has NO idea how peaceful her life is about to be when I finally find her. 😮‍💨❤️

Because I’m not looking for somebody to make my life harder.

And I definitely don’t want to make hers harder either.

I want us to be each other’s BREAK from the world.

Come home, take your shoes off, tell me what happened today and let all that stress stay outside. ❤️

If something is weighing on you, tell me.

If I can fix it, I will.

If I can’t fix it, come here and let me hold you while WE figure it out.

That’s the type of relationship I want.

No wondering where you stand.

No disappearing when we’re upset.

No competing with each other.

No making each other jealous just to prove a point.

Just two people completely secure knowing, “That’s MY person.” 💯❤️

And trust me… I’m still going to be a lover boy. 😂

Flowers.

Dates.

Trips.

Random gifts.

Spoiling you just because I enjoy seeing you happy.

But the biggest luxury I want to give my woman isn’t something I can buy.

It’s PEACE.

Peace knowing she’s loved.

Peace knowing I’m faithful.

Peace knowing she has a man who communicates, provides, protects and actually WANTS to come home to her.

I don’t want my woman questioning whether I love her.

I want her biggest complaint to be…

“This man will NOT leave me alone.” 😭😂❤️

I know somebody out there is tired of confusion and ready for something REAL.

I just wish she’d hurry up and find me… because I’m ready to make loving her my favorite job. 🥹❤️

I’m not looking for a woman because I NEED one… I’m looking because I genuinely WANT somebody to love. 😮‍💨❤️

I can cook for myself.

I can clean my own house.

I can pay my own bills.

I can travel alone, buy myself nice things and handle whatever life throws at me.

I’ve been doing it.

But being able to do everything alone doesn’t mean I WANT to spend my life doing everything alone. 💯

I want somebody to think about besides myself.

I want to walk through a store, see something beautiful and immediately think, “My woman would love this.” ❤️

I want to make reservations for TWO.

Book flights for TWO. ✈️

Wake up on Sunday morning and ask, “What are WE doing today?”

I want to work hard and know there’s somebody I’m building WITH.

And when I come home?

I want that hug at the door.

That kiss that lasts a little longer because we missed each other.

Her laying across me on the couch telling me every detail of her day while I pretend I’m not tired. 😂❤️

I want to spoil her, protect her, provide for her and make sure she never questions how important she is to me.

Not because she can’t do those things herself…

Because loving her would make me WANT to.

I’ve mastered being independent.

Now I’m ready to master being somebody’s MAN. ❤️

The boyfriend she brags about.

The husband she feels safe with.

The man she looks at years later and thinks, “I’m glad I waited for him.” 💍

So where is the woman who’s tired of doing life alone too?

Because I’m ready to change “mine” into “ours.” 🥹❤️

I’m tired of having everything I prayed for… except somebody to share it with. 😮‍💨❤️

I work hard. I’m responsible. I’ve built a comfortable life for myself, and I’m proud of that.

But eventually you realize something…

Success feels different when there’s nobody waiting to celebrate it with you.

I want MY woman.

The one I can call after something good happens and she’s more excited than I am. 😂❤️

The one sitting beside me at dinner while I’m thinking, “Yeah… THIS is who I want to enjoy life with.”

I want to take her places she’s never been. ✈️

Spoil her without her asking.

Surprise her with flowers because I know they’ll make her smile. 💐

Make sure she’s comfortable and never has to question whether her man has her back.

But when all the nice things are put away?

I want the SIMPLE stuff even more.

Her falling asleep on me while we’re watching TV.

Us cooking together and getting in each other’s way.

Her yelling from another room asking where something is that’s literally sitting in front of her. 😂

A random kiss when I walk through the door.

Someone looking at me and saying, “I’m proud of you, baby.”

Man… give me THAT. ❤️

I can buy myself whatever I want.

What I can’t buy is somebody who genuinely loves me for ME.

I don’t need another option.

I need the woman who makes me grateful I waited.

Because I’m ready to stop building a good life for ONE…

and start building a beautiful life for TWO. 🥹❤️

I’m starting to think I have entirely too much love in me to still be coming home ALONE. 😮‍💨❤️

I’m not looking for somebody to entertain me.

I want a woman I can POUR into.

I want to know she had a rough day and already have dinner waiting before she gets home.

I want to notice she’s been stressed and tell her, “Clear your weekend. I already made plans for us.” ✈️❤️

I want random flowers on the kitchen counter.

Good morning kisses.

Holding her from behind while she’s cooking.

Calling her on my way home just because I’ve been thinking about her all day. 💐

And yes, I want to provide.

I want my woman knowing that when life gets heavy, she has somebody beside her saying, “Give me some of that weight. You don’t have to carry everything anymore.”

But I don’t need perfection in return.

Give me PEACE.

Give me loyalty.

Be affectionate with me.

Ask me how MY day went.

Come lay beside me when I’m quiet and remind me that I have somewhere safe to land too. ❤️

I’m not interested in loving halfway.

When I find my woman, I want her SPOILED with love, attention, consistency and reassurance until being treated right becomes normal to her.

I keep hearing women say, “Where are the good men?”

Meanwhile I’m over here wondering…

Where is the woman who’s ready for one? 😭😂❤️

Because I’m ready to love somebody like I’ve been waiting my whole life to find her. 💯❤️

I don’t want a woman who has to beg me to be romantic… I want her wondering what I’m about to do NEXT. 😮‍💨❤️

I want to keep dating my woman even after I already have her.

Random Tuesday?

Put something nice on. Reservations are at 7. ❤️

Regular Friday after work?

Come outside. I brought flowers and your favorite food. 💐

She casually says she’s always wanted to visit somewhere?

I’m quietly checking flights. 😂✈️

I don’t want romance to disappear just because we’ve been together for years.

I want my woman getting dressed one day asking, “Where are we going?”

And me smiling like, “Just trust me.” 😏❤️

I want her friends telling her, “Girl, that man is STILL doing all that?”

YES.

Because getting the woman isn’t where the effort should stop.

That’s where it should START. 💯

I want to learn new ways to make her smile. Keep surprising her. Keep flirting with her. Keep reminding her that out of everybody I could’ve chosen, I’m still choosing HER.

At 6 months.

At 5 years.

At 20 years.

Even when she’s my wife and knows she isn’t going anywhere. 💍❤️

Maybe I’m a little too romantic for this generation…

But I want the kind of woman who never has to watch another couple and wonder, “Why doesn’t my man do that for me?”

Baby, you’ll be too busy making THEM wonder where you found ME. 😂😮‍💨❤️

Now the only problem is…

Where do I find the woman worth loving like this? 👀❤️

😂 Oh nothing… just putting myself on TIME OUT.

Apparently I needed a minute to think about why I keep believing I’m gonna find somebody who loves the way I do. 😭❤️

Because when I love somebody, I’m ALL IN.

I’m talking “text me when you get home” love.
“I saw this and thought about you” love.
Flowers for no reason. 💐
Random dates.
Checking on your day.
Making sure you ate.
Learning the little things you never thought anybody noticed.

I don’t want to act nonchalant. I don’t want five options. I don’t want to pretend I care less just so I look cool.

I want ONE woman I can love loudly, spoil intentionally, protect her peace, and build something real with.

But apparently my heart keeps writing checks this dating world can’t cash. 😂🤦🏽‍♂️

So yeah… I’m in the corner thinking about my actions.

Time out ends when somebody proves love like mine still exists. 😂❤️

Be honest… am I asking for too much, or am I just asking the wrong women? 👀